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Poster: fenario80 Date: Oct 12, 2010 10:57am
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: 'fair game' now

Hey, maybe you don't actually want this, but this is some truly creepy stuff. A 1931-born New Jerseyite named Richard Gardner, who held some controversial views on child psychology. There's a picture of the guy too:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richard_A._Gardner

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Poster: dead-head_Monte Date: Oct 12, 2010 12:40pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: 'fair game' now

That's funny. Did you see snow_and_rain finding another Richard Gartner, psychologist and psychoanalyst in New York City who specializes in treating men with histories of sexual abuse?

New Jersey's Richard Gertner is a rapist, child abuser, molester, and pedophile who raped me for several years. He is in exactly the same camp as your brother the molester. Ken Buck is far worse than Richard Gertner, who was raping me when I was 8, 9, 10 years old. Richard Gertner was probably 15, 16, 17, or 18 years old while he was raping me. Richard Gertner was most likely born approximately 1942, plus or minus 2 or 3 years. James Gertner was pretty messed up also, about sexual abuse. James knew what Richard was doing to me, but James NEVER laid a finger on me. Thank you, James.

January 1, 1961 address
Richard and older brother James Gertner

Richard Gertner
54-K Howard Drive
Bergenfield, NJ 07621

Monte Barry wrote this posting today, on October 12, 2010. Monte lives in Fort Collins, Colorado. Monte Barry appears in the phone book.

Monte Barry is a.k.a Monte-the-Taper, and dead-head_Monte

Monte Barry in his mug-shot
monte-gd-smile.jpg

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Poster: micah6vs8 Date: Oct 12, 2010 3:28pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: 'fair game' now

I am very late to the game here Monte . I am very sympathetic to your situation , and I'm so sorry for that awful hand you were dealt as a child . The trauma carves out deep areas of one's heart and spirit , and some of those places can never be filled again . The best one can do is compartmentalize , but that takes a lot of constant energy and focus . It's wearing .
The % of men who were molested , who go on to become offenders themselves is high . So you can take satisfaction that though this tragedy has took so much from you , it did not take that which makes you human and your empathy . Disclosure can be liberating and I hope you are able to have whatever non-violent ending you need with your rapist . I know that Statute of Limitations for these crimes has been extended in many jurisdictions , if you seek legal remedies . I would find out . Go easy as you can Monte . You are not alone .

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Poster: fenario80 Date: Oct 12, 2010 3:54pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: 'fair game' now

Hey Monte, you are my hero today. Hell, probably for this year. Very inspiring. Thanks for bringing this in here: I really appreciate the opportunity to get to know you better and, of course, to vent my spleen. I wish you joy, peace, and sleep on your journey.

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